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A note before you read

Reading ethical guidelines can sometimes feel overwhelming, especially if you are new to this kind of work, sensitive around touch, or coming with a history where boundaries or consent have felt unclear or unsafe.

Nothing in this document is meant to rush you, test you, or require you to know what you want in advance.

These guidelines exist to support clarity, safety, and choice, not pressure.

We always go slowly, step by step. Everything is explored through dialogue, consent, and attunement. You are always free to pause, change your mind, or decide that something is not right for you. At any moment, without explanation.

You do not need to understand or decide everything by reading this. This document is here so you know the values, boundaries, and professional frame that hold the work.

Ethics, integrity & professional framework

Ethics, integrity, and care are the foundation of my work.

I offer trauma-informed tantric bodywork within a clear professional framework so that you can explore your body, sensations, and inner experience with safety, dignity, and trust.

My work is offered as professional bodywork and somatic support within a clearly defined therapeutic framework. It does not involve sexual services of any kind.

All sessions are held with respect for your autonomy, boundaries, and lived experience, and in accordance with Danish law and generally accepted ethical standards within body therapy and complementary treatment practices in Denmark.

The work is guided by six core principles

Respect & Dignity

Every session is held with respect for your autonomy, your body, and your lived experience. This work is grounded in respect for human dignity above all else.

Informed Consent

Every touch is communicated before it happens. You have the right to pause, adjust, or stop at any time, without explanation or justification. Consent is active, informed, and respected throughout.

Confidentiality

Everything shared in session is held in strict confidence. Your privacy is treated with care and discretion, creating a space where you can speak and explore freely.

Professional Boundaries

This is a professional therapeutic relationship. Clear and consistent boundaries create the safety that allows deeper work to unfold. The container of this practice remains defined and protected.

Therapeutic Frame

This work is held within a clear therapeutic framework. Every session is approached with intention, clarity, and respect for the depth and sensitivity of the human experience.

Trauma-Informed Approach

Sessions are designed with the understanding that experience lives in the body. We work with your nervous system, not against it, honoring pace, regulation, and individual sensitivity.

Clothing & comfort

Your comfort and sense of safety come first.

  • You are always free to choose how much or how little clothing you wear during a session.
  • Sessions can take place fully clothed, partially clothed, or with more skin contact, depending entirely on what feels right for you.
  • There is no expectation to undress or to be naked at any point. Nothing is required or assumed.
  • We check in together and adjust as needed, and you are welcome to change your mind at any time.

The intention is not exposure, but attunement — staying connected to your body's signals and choosing what supports your sense of ease and agency in the moment.

How I hold the work

The following guidelines outline the ethical and professional principles that shape every session.

01 Confidentiality

What you share in sessions is treated with care and confidentiality. I am bound by confidentiality in accordance with Section 152 of the Danish Penal Code. Personal information or details from sessions are not shared with third parties without your prior written consent.

02 Professional conduct & attire

I remain clothed at all times during sessions (at minimum wearing shorts and a top). My conduct is professional, respectful, and clearly defined, so the focus can remain on your experience and sense of safety.

03 One-way touch

All touch is one-way, from practitioner to client. I do not provide training or instruction in giving erotic touch. If you are seeking to learn touch skills or practices for relational or sexual contexts, I can refer you to appropriate partner- or group-based formats outside individual therapeutic sessions.

04 Boundaries & your autonomy

I ask for permission before initiating any touch and continuously respect both verbal and non-verbal boundaries. Touch stops immediately if you ask, hesitate, or show signs of discomfort, even subtly. Your signals are always taken seriously.

05 Sexual & romantic boundaries

I do not engage in sexual or romantic relationships with clients during an active therapeutic relationship, or for a minimum of 12 months after sessions have ended. If romantic or sexual feelings arise on either side, the therapeutic relationship is paused or ended in order to protect clarity, safety, and integrity.

06 Power awareness & non-exploitation

I acknowledge that there is an inherent power difference in a practitioner–client relationship. I commit to never using this position for sexual, emotional, financial, or any other form of exploitation. All decisions in sessions are made solely in service of your wellbeing, safety, and autonomy.

07 Age limits

I do not offer intimate bodywork to persons under the age of 18. Minors may only receive non-intimate massage or conversational support, and only in accordance with Danish law.

08 Intimate & genital boundaries

Many sessions do not include work with intimate areas at all. If work with intimate or genital areas is ever explored, it is never expected and only considered after trust, clarity, and explicit conversation.

  • I never engage in contact using my own genitals or oral contact.
  • If genital contact is explicitly agreed upon as part of a therapeutic process, it is performed only with single-use protective gloves, within clearly defined professional boundaries and with informed consent.

You are always free to say no, pause, or change your mind — before or during the session.

09 Substances

Sessions are not offered to individuals who are under the influence of alcohol or intoxicating substances, as clarity and consent are essential for this work.

10 Pausing or ending a session

There may be moments when it feels important to pause or end a session in order to protect clarity, safety, and integrity. This can happen if:

  • consent becomes unclear
  • boundaries feel compromised
  • behavior becomes inappropriate
  • either of us senses that continuing does not feel supportive in that moment

Any pause or ending of a session is approached with care, communication, and respect — and is not a judgment, but a commitment to safety and ethical integrity for both of us.

11 Professional development & supervision

I commit to ongoing education, self-reflection, and professional supervision to continuously develop my skills, awareness, and ethical integrity.

The intention of this work

My intention is to create a space where you can meet your body, sensations, and inner world with safety, clarity, and agency.

Integrity, transparency, and respect are not add-ons to this work, but its very core.

If anything in this document brings up questions, hesitation, or uncertainty, you are welcome to reach out and ask for clarification.

This space is held through dialogue, presence, and ongoing consent, and your experience and boundaries are always central.